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Each partner answers 14 short questions on their own — no peeking, no influencing. About 5 minutes per person.
A 5-minute assessment, taken by both partners, that gives you a real read across 7 research-backed dimensions— communication, conflict, trust, intimacy, and the things you didn't know you didn't know. Built on Gottman, Sue Johnson, and Chapman.
No therapist appointment. No 90-question questionnaire. Just a short conversation that actually moves the needle.
Each partner answers 14 short questions on their own — no peeking, no influencing. About 5 minutes per person.
An instant snapshot across communication, conflict style, and emotional connection — written in plain English, with citations.
Unlock all 7 dimensions plus the AI Love Coach — weekly exercises tuned to where you actually have room to grow.
Each feature works on its own — and they're even better together.
Guided relationship reflection grounded in couples science
Patterns from a real conversation you choose to share
AI chatbot for between-report check-ins
How your relationship shifts over time
Most arguments are about one of these — even when they sound like they're about something else.
Three quick picks. Not the real assessment — just a sense of how it feels.
We didn't invent how this works. We just made it usable.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
40+ years of researchHold Me Tight · Emotionally Focused Therapy
Attachment-basedThe Five Love Languages
13M copies soldMating in Captivity
Modern intimacyThe quality of a couple's friendship is the most important predictor of satisfaction in a relationship.— John Gottman
Three patterns we hear constantly — pulled from the actual feedback inbox.
“We thought we communicated well. The report showed us a blind spot we'd been having for years. Sparked the best two-hour conversation of our marriage.”
“I was skeptical about the AI piece. The first response cited a specific Gottman concept and showed me the citation. It earned my trust pretty quickly.”
“We took it on a whim before a long drive. The conflict-style result explained a fight we'd been re-having for a year in about three sentences. Felt weirdly seen.”
No annual lock-in, no email-us-to-cancel. The first full report is free.
For one-time use. Your first report's free anyway.
For anyone actively working on their relationship.
For the long-term project of staying close.
Yes. Each partner's individual answers are never shown to the other one — only the combined analysis is. End-to-end encrypted at rest and in transit. We can't read your AI Coach conversations either.
Roughly 5 minutes per partner for the 14-question version. There's a 10-minute guided AI version if you want more nuance — both cover all 7 dimensions.
Yes. One of you creates the couple space and invites the other. Each partner answers independently — that's how we get a real read instead of a curated one.
Good. The report's a conversation starter, not a verdict. It surfaces patterns; you decide what to do with them. The Love Coach can walk you through any specific score you want to push back on.
Subscribers retake it monthly. Watching a low score climb (or a high score hold) over six months is one of the most concrete signals of growth we've seen.
Primary sources: the Gottman Institute (love maps, four horsemen, repair attempts), Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gary Chapman's love languages, and a body of attachment-theory research from Bowlby through Hazan & Shaver. Every Love Coach response cites the specific paper or book it pulled from.
Most couples wait six years before addressing what's quietly off. The fact that you're here means you're already not most couples.